I'm a little bit of a Carrie....

So to me the most important part of my wedding outfit will be my shoes. I don't know if I've mentioned it before but I adore shoes! I have an extensive collection and it keeps getting bigger. I am, however, very picky. Some people will just buy anything they see so they can say they have "so many pairs of shoes!". Not me. Granted I do have A LOT of pairs but it is a very select collection, they are all the highest quality and 95% are worn regularly.

In saying that, the search for my bridal shoes (I use the term loosely as what I want really doesn't fit the stereotypical meaning of the word 'bridal') began long before I became engaged. Most 'bridal' shoes are hideous! I discovered this years ago when my older sister was getting married and as her maid of honour, we spent hours, days, weeks and eventually months, searching for her shoes. The shoes she ended up with were very nice and suited her but were still old school- low heeled, plain cream satin with an ankle strap. She has a very classic style. I on the other hand, do not. I must have the highest heel I can! I must be bright and showy! I do classic in my clothing but my shoes are ALWAYS the life of the party!

Keep in mind the following selection of shoes were found before we selected the colour scheme for our wedding but I just love the alternative colours so much I have to include them! My dress falls just below the knee so I can show case whatever shoes I choose.

I love the ankle straps!



The 50s style is a fave! The bows are delicious!

And the colour would stop traffic!

I have to say I LOVE THESE! Despite being white

the veil motif is so funky. A definate possibility.

Words cannot describe the squeal of joy when

I found these! But it gets better....Then I found......

THESE! The colour is perfect! The style is perfect!

They a perfect! *sigh*



So you tell me peeps. What would be your perfect wedding shoe? I've shown you mine :)



A little off topic....

I know this blog is supposed to be about wedding stuff but today, I went shopping... I had a great time.

My new colour! Princesses Rule!

Priceline at Indooroopilly is closing down so they had 20% off EVERYTHING in store *JOY* So I got myself a few things including new eyeshadow, mascara (Maxfactor, I heart U!), I stocked up on my Pancake by Maxfactor foundation and finally got a set of make up travel bags.

I love these colours!



The gold is False Lash Effect (AMAZING!)

The black is Lash Extension Effect (Havn't tried it yet)

I found these bad boys today! I was introduced to Burts Bees by my good friend Miss Maddy and I've never looked back. These cleansing wipes remove dirt, oil and make up and contain White Tea Extract. They smell AMAZING!! They also have a proper lid to keep them moist.

Normally I use the More Moisture shampoo and conditioner but today I decided to go in a different direction. I've used the volumising shampoo as well and whoa mama, does it add volume. My hair is pretty much Texas beauty queen big as it is so I really don't need more volume. I'm hoping the Super Shiny works as well as the others and my hair becomes "super shiny".



Enjoy peeps! You should all go out and grab theses products! You will not regret it!

The Suit

So I don't know how many of you have watched Burn Notice. Long story short, it's freaking awesome and you should all watch it! What does this have to do with suits for weddings I hear you ask. Well the leading man, Jeffrey Donovan aka Michael Westen is a gorgeous burned spy and dresses like a dream. The show is set in Miami Florida so it's a hot and sweaty climate not unlike the good ol' Sunshine State. Mr Westen always looks cool and composed even when under extreme pressure which he is most of the time. His suits always look expensive and tailored to an inch of their lives and Michael wears them oh so well. It's very much the look that is perfect for a smart/casual Queensland summer wedding.

For example...though without the gun...

And another...

And something with a tie...



I love the grey suits!

And just because I can....

The Dress

What makes the perfect dress? Is it the colour? The fabric? The designer? I'll let you in on a secret, it's none of these things. It's simply what makes your day perfect for you. Just like every other aspect of your wedding. Nothing else matters, no one elses opinion counts but yours and your husband to be. It's all about you two. The one day you can and should be totally selfish. If you start caring about what Great Aunt Meryl or your fiancees second cousins roommate thinks, then you're in trouble. And no offence, but you're also a bit of a dill.

In saying that, I have found the perfect dress for me and despite knowing that pretty much everyone who sees it will have a (not so positive) opinion of it, I couldn't care at all. I love the dress, it'll suit me, I'll feel comfortable in it and I'll always remember who good I felt on the day. To me that spells SUCCESS.

This is the one!

(Also, it doesn't hurt that Kim K is wearing it)

It's pretty much the same as this one, just in white.





I hear what you say, that doesn't look like a wedding dress.... But seriously, why do we all strive to be carbon copies of each other on our "special" day? Give me a cogent argument and I'll admit I'm wrong. Well maybe not wrong but I'll change my opinion. So many gowns these days are EXACTLY THE SAME! Theres nothing of the individual bride in them. The one day that is totally about you and nothing of your personality or individuality is present. I'm making sure that everyone sees ME on our wedding day even if it's not "fashionable".  Call me pretentious if you wish but I'll care about that as much as I will about other peoples views on my wedding :D

Valentines Day

Ok so I totally get that a blog about a bride to be would not be complete without a V Day post even though we don't really make a big deal of it (other than our first together which I must say was FANTASTIC!). So here it is.

This was our 3rd Valentines Day together. We've done different stuff every year which I think is good. Don't want to get bored or anything. However, the last two years, Valentines Day has been through the week. Now I'm not saying I'm old but I like being in bed by 9pm most nights  (as does husband to be) so going out through the week doesn't really fit our lifestyle. We celebrate Valentines Day on the Saturday before which has other benefits aswell such as, there's no price hike cos of the date, there's no restrictions on menus etc because of the date and most importantly there isn't a billion other couples competing for a table/room/parking space etc.

This year we decided to go to dinner and a movie. Pepes Jindalee was the restaurant and Sherlock Holmes 2 was the movie, Unfortunately the movie didn't start til after 9pm.... And a massive storm was headed our way so once dinner was eaten (by 8pm even though I was dragging it out) we decided to just go home and snuggle on the couch with a movie. I must say, this was WAY better than sitting in a movie theatre.

Gifts (or I should say gift) were done earlier that week. I got to chose my own and I got a beautiful satin robe. Its a grey blue colour and I love it!
As yet I haven't given my gift (mostly cos I have NO idea what to get but I'm sure I'll think of something.

I hope everyone had a great Valentines Day no matter to what degree you celebrate it!

The thing about honeymoons....

So since we've gotten engaged pretty much everyone has asked about a prospective date for the I do's. Only one person has asked if we've thought about the honeymoon. Which got me thinking about where I'd like to go. She suggested Tasmania. Which was on the right track as I have always maintained that I wanted my honeymoon to be in Australia. I've always had this bug in my brain that going overseas for your honeymoon was pretentious. Don't ask me why, I just have and I don't mean any offence to anyone who wants to go overseas (I do actually :P) but to me it seemed sill to go to some tropical island overseas when WE LIVE ON ONE! And theres less chance of  horrible things happening to you here.

I also got thinking about it this christmas. My family and I went to Rumba Restort at Caloundra and more amazing place I've never been. It was gorgeous. Ocean views, a spa in our bathroom and an array of restaurants to please any palate just a quick lift ride away, it was a lovely and relaxing time. As well as being only a 20-30 min drive from Montville and Maleny (two of my FAVOURITE places ever). Not that its a list topper as far as a honeymoon destination goes but these days, not alot of people actually get a proper honeymoon. So really, it could be the place if work/money doesn't allow much else. I think it'd be a grand ol' time too.

But given the choice, I would pick either the wine regions in Victoria or South Australia, the countryside or mountains in New South Wales or somewhere tropical in North Queensland. Those are in order of preference by the way, just so I'm clear.

So think on it and let me know where you would like to go or DID go for your honeymoon!

The Ring

Hello again! I know, I've been terrible and not posted in months but I'm back now!

No this post isn't a rip off of a Japanese horror movie, it's about my amzing engagement ring. I think I mentioned a post or two back that I finally got it. I won't go into the details of the horrible heartbreaking experience we went through to get it but just give you a basic low down.

My ring is the Hearts on Fire Transcend Dream Single Halo. I love it! We picked it out together. I told me fiancee that anything he picked would be perfect but he told me that I would have to wear it the rest of my life and he wanted me to have some say. So here it is. Don't be jealous ladies :P Now all I have to do is pick the perfect wedding band to compliment it. There is a matching band but after the hullabaloo getting this I'd prefer going elsewhere.



Bubble and Sweets Part 2

So I've done reds I'd like for my wedding, now I'm moving onto whites. So theres a few I'll mention, again some are boutique some are plain ol' bottle shop but all are fabulous.

This first one I found pretty much by accident. My lovely fiancee was looking for a secret Santa present for a work collegue and we went to the bottle shop together. I must say, I only found this brand of wine cos I like pretty pictures.... Baily and Baily has a large selection of red, white, dessert and sparkling wines all with different names and pretty silhouette pictures to match. We ended up getting a few different ones for the secret Santa gift and then tacked on a few for ourselves. 

Baily and Baily Silhouette Moscato Heavens Gate= OH MY GOSH!! This is so lovely. It's really smoothe, refreshing and has a beautiful round flavour that doesn't fade once you've swallowed it. Theres no burn to this wine and is amazing on a hot summer afternoon. 

My second white is a boutique wine from Maleny Mountain Winery at Maleny, Sweet Sunshine *sigh*. Not only does it have a lovely name, it tastes beautiful too. The winery website itself describes the wine as "sweet and soft in texture with a pleasant fruity finish" and it's so true. It is worth the almost 2 hour drive up a mountain (I have a massive phobia of heights....) to get to it. Doesn't hurt that pretty much everything from the place is amazing and theres a cheese factory up the road.... But I would go just to get this wine so I could indulge on a hot day. A total must for sweet lovers.

I'll combine my next two as they both come from the same place. Brown Brothers. I love Brown Brothers wines and they are a staple in my wine collection. They are readily available in all bottle shops and are great prices. So the first is the Moscato. Its the plain 2010 Moscato, they have a few. It has a mild frizzante to it and a sweet sherberty taste. The other Brown Brothers is the Crouchen Riesling. I've drunk this wine for many years and still love it. Its very fruity and crisp and never disappoints. 

           



So they are my choices for sweet whites. They are all great value and go well either on their own or with food. Stock up I say and enjoy *kisses*

Bubbles and Sweets

Ok so I finally have my ring (YAH!) so I can really start looking into what we (translation "I") would love to have incorporated into our wedding. Today I'm going to compare some champagnes (well sparkling wines really) that I've narrowed down as wanting for toasts etc. Also, I'll throw in some of my and my fiancees favourite wines. Now not all places are happy to have you provide your own alcohol so depending where we have our reception will decide whether any of these make it to the big day.

The first bubbly I'd like to mention is one I've only recently tried. NV Frizzante by Banrock Station. I bought this on a whim last Friday and we had it as a celebratory drink on Saturday when we finally got my engagement back. In a word this wine is delicious. I admit, I like sweet wines but this one, boy oh boy, it's got the most beautiful flavour. Its described as "lemon sherbert and exotic fruit". It certainly has a sherberty fizz to it but it's a very soft fizz. It doesn't give you that tickle in the nose that makes you screw your face up nor does it have the fizzy burn like a lot of the others that makes you smack your tongue around your mouth. You can buy it in any bottle shop. It's around the $14.99 mark I think.

The other I'd like to discuss is a boutique sparkling wine from a winery in the Hunter Valley called Peterson House. Now, unfortunately we've not been to the actual estate, we tasted (and subsequently purchased) several of their wines at the Brisbane Ekka this year. I was drawn to it as the stand was lavishly pink and sparkly (thats just me, I like shiny things) and I'm sooooo glad I was. The Botrytis Semillon is absolutely stunning. It is described by Peterson House as having "rich apricot and smooth citrus flavours" and you better believe it does. It's not technically sparkling (it's actually a dessert wine) but it gives that impression when it hits your tongue. Like the NV Frizzante it has no burn to it and slides down easy. A little too easy :P This is only available through Peterson House online or their cellars in the Hunter Valley (so unfortunate for non Hunter Valley residents). We still have our bottle and are saving it for a very special occasions. It's priced at $32.00 and totally worth it!

So they are my choices as our "champagnes" for the wedding. Now for general wine selections I have a few I'd like to share. We are mainly red drinkers but as I said earlier we like sweet wines. It can be difficult to find sweet reds in bottle shops but I've done the hard yards and heres all the tips you need to find a good drop. All these wines MUST be served chilled so are much better being drunk in the warmer months.
The first is a wine I kinda found by accident. I can't even remember the circumstances but I know it was an accident. Its Crimson Cabernet by Banrock Station. It is gorgeous in every way. It's raspberry, strawberry and cream in flavour and has no bitterness or acidity like some other reds (that goes for all the reds I'll mention). It is VERY drinkable and goes with pretty much anything. Or nothing at all. It retails for between $8.99 to $14.99 depending on specials in bottle shops.

The second is Cienna by Brown Brothers. My oldest sister put me onto this one when I told her about the Crimson Cabernet (hereafter to be called CC). We did a swappsies of sorts. Cienna is just as good as CC but if possible it's even sweeter with even less acidity (which is really saying something). It retails a little cheaper than CC. Around $12.99 in any bottle shop.

Lastly, I want to mention what is my FAVOURITE sweet red. Love by Sirromet. This is the most beautiful wine I have ever tasted. We picked this one up from the Queensland Tasting Centre at Mount Tamborine (awesome place! You must go there. Wines from all over not just 1 winery). This wine is just so good I cannot praise it enough. You must try this wine. You just must! It's a cherry type flavour that leaves your mouth feeling like it's just spent a long relaxing time by a cool pond (without the fish/frog after taste). If you're not a fan of reds as such, I would recommend this as your "first". It'll be gentle and sweet and take care of your needs without asking anything in return. You can get this in other places than the Sirromet Winery such as the QLD Tasting Centre and other boutique wine shops but it's not available in general bottle shops.

Hopefully I'll be able to partake in one, some or all of these beauties at my wedding but it's not possible then that fine because I can get most of them with not too much trouble.

My Dream....

Ok so I'm moving away from discussing my ring simply because I'd probably throw my laptop into our TV if I have to again think about the sh*t we're going through.

So onto what I actually want in my wedding (even though it's still around 2 years away). When I was young I would dream about my generic wedding to a faceless man. Then as I grew older and discovered that marriage was about loving someone (who woulda thought it) I lost any hope and interest of getting married. As a whole the men I had any involvement with where complete idiots who though more of me as a barbie doll than a person (I have a very similar shape in certain areas) and they usually focussed in one area in particular mostly because there is an abundance of it, err them... But then after 25 odd years, I moved jobs and met a guy... And all the years of claiming I'd never get married vanished like they'd never happened. So to make a long story short (too late) I started to imagine ALL the possibilities of what we could have for our wedding.

Now I, much like my dear friend Miss Maddy (totes have to check out her blog if you havn't already) absolutely love all things vintage. As I've gotten older my everyday style has revolved around the vintage look. I work in an office environment so it's very easy for me to indulge this love. Seamed stockings, suspenders and garters, sky high stiletto pumps, blouses and knit tops, pencil skirts and cardigans all have a prized place in my wardrobe. 
My idol, since I was ten years old, is Marilyn Monroe. I adore her. Jane Russell, Lauren Becall, Jayne Mansfield, Katherine Hepburn just to name a few stand along side Marilyn as the epitome of class, elegance, sexuality and feminine power. These women and their era's of domination, the 40's and 50's are the inspiration for my wedding. I also adore the style of Dita Von Teese and think she is amazing, having been such a huge influence and a key figure in the recent revival of this area of fashion. I have spent hours pouring through websites finding what I want, from my and my bridemaids gowns, to my fiancees suit, to my bouquet, make up and hairstyle. Everything will have a touch of vintage to it. 

That being said, please enjoy a taste of what I've found out there. The following are some examples of the style of wedding (God willing) we will have!

R-Day

Well my ring is due back today. So far we'd heard zip.... Not impressed. We checked last week that everything was on schedule so we didn't waste time going to collect a ring that wasn't there (as that had happened to a colleague of mine recently, different jeweller though). We were told it would be on time and they would make sure to check straight away with their head office to ensure this information was correct. We would receive a return telephone call if there would be a delay. No call has been received. So we're assuming it has arrived. Although as a famous person once said, assumption is the mother of all f*ck ups....
If no call has come by tomorrow a call will be made... And questions asked if our precious cargo ISN'T here. And not nice polite questions either. I've been fairly controlled so far but my patience (which is great, if I do say so myself) is fast evaporating.

Hopefully my next post will contain the good news that I'm typing with a diamond clad finger :D We can all only hope otherwise my whinging might just become unbearable. I'm sure most of my family, friends and work mates are welcoming the return of my ring even more than as as it heralds the dawn of me shutting up about it!

The Longest Wait

So, at the moment I'm waiting for my engagement ring to be sent back to me *sniff sniff*. I've been waiting for almost 8 weeks now and it's driving me crazy! I still have another 2 weeks before it MUST be back as per the jewellers promise but they made the big mistake of telling my fiancee and me that it may be back earlier. So in about 5 days they're going to start getting a phone call every day asking if it's back.

See, despite all his effort to have it perfect, including taking a ring of mine that fits my finger perfectly, the chick in the jewellery shop decided she knew better and made the thing 2 sizes bigger than it already was. Which, when we took it back to have resized, we discovered made it FIVE sizes too big for my finger. Yep, thats right FIVE sizes! Then they had to gall to try to blame us, albight in a very subtl passive agressive way. I of course was quick to put them in their place and let them know that if they have followed the guide that my fiancee had provided, it would have fitted. So that put an end to the snide comments. So my precious ring was taken from me after only 4 hours of wear and sent across the seas the America to be remade. I didn't understand at first why it would take 8-10 weeks to remake a band and switch the diamonds. Then I realised that they would not simply switch the diamonds out of my original ring but have to cut all new diamonds to the exact specifications as my original ring. That made me sad because I realised that the beautiful ring my fiancee had proposed to me with would not come back to me in any form, it was gone. Instead I would be getting a 2nd ring. But I soon got over that, hahaha!

So here I sit, waiting for the phone call to come get my ring. The loss, however, has been tempered some what by the fact that my mother gifted me with her own beautiful engagement ring to wear for the duration. It's as beautiful as mine so the ring along with her gesture has made the last 8 weeks much more bearable. Which is why shes the best mother ever (just so you know).

If anyone has been through something similar, let me know your story and what you did to get through it. I know it seems like something trivial, but an engagement ring is the one piece of jewellery that is for life and most women wait so long for it, its cruel to make them wait longer.

My First Post!

Ok, so this is my first time. Blogging that is.... I guess that means I shouldn't be wearing white to my wedding, hahaha! This will be a short post as I don't have alot to blog about at present. Let me start off by saying, I've got about a thousand pictures of hair styles, shoes, dresses, veils, lingerie, rings (though I already have that) and every other wedding item you can think of that I will have to sort through and narrow down for our special day. I plan to blog about this journey cos I think my friends and family will probably get sick of "wedding talk" and I'll need to vent to someone (thats just how I roll, I like discussing things...at length). So I invite you on this ride and let me know what you think!